Hi Lucy,

Well, I think I can mostly relate to however you are feeling right now. It stinks.

I don’t know if this would help but I believe that however badly you want to know if he would regret leaving you or not, it still doesnt matter. I am currently facing the same question and I am also currently trying to keep telling myself that it wouldn’t make a difference. The fact of the matter is that, the person we hold so dearly (respectively) has decided to move away from us (be it to a different partner or to settle their own issues). So technically, even if they do regret or they don’t regret wont change to anything that benefits us.

Maybe in the future then both of us will find the answer to this question. Maybe we won’t. So why bother thinking about it even?

I’m saying this to also remind myself not to bother too much about it So that maybe I can move on abit quicker.

Hope it helps, some way, somehow