I really wish I could explain it in a way that made sense, but it doesn’t make sense….. so its impossible.
I really appreciate your time, and your input.

just received a message from her insisting that I see her tonight….. I’m going to burn in hell!

I absolutely agree… it’s really complicated!
Neither one of us have wanted intimacy with our partners for a very very long time. As far as her not getting a divorce, she says that she is afraid of change. And believe me when I say that its more usual then not to loose that passion for each other in time when you have to deal with each other on a dayly basis.

hello all…..

sorry it took so long to get back with you, things are just bazar.
I have told myself that if the right woman happened to come along that I would leave my wife and move on, I know how that sounds, but that’s the way I have felt for years. we both know that we have been unhappy for years, all though we get along pretty well, there just isn’t any spark, or attraction to one another any more, and no matter how hard we try….. its just not coming back. The coworker and I have this intense passion for one another! I have tried to walk away from her, but after a couple of days away from her, and especially not having any communication with her…..I start to go insane!!!I have never had this kind of a problem before, and I don’t know how to handle it! We both know what we are supposed to do…… we just cant seem to do it. Why cant it just be as simple as we really are meant to be together?