I suppose that is true as we don’t really know each other that well. my problem is that it’s hard for me to accept it because I’m unable to rationalize it in my mind
I would want to try therapy but it tends to be quite expensive and I’m a university student so it’s out of my budget. I think the problem is that I didn’t have a lot of intamacy as a child and my parents love always seemed conditional to me.
That seems like a good plan. I don’t understand how to even do those steps though. I understand the problem to a degree but I’m unsure of how to fix them
That does make sense. I suppose my biggest problem is caring to much and being to invested even tho realistically there is no relationship. I emotionally atttch too easily
It’s possible as that seems to be the nature of online dating. I suppose I’d just feel disappointed as I thought I made a good first impression. I’d also feel that it would be unfair as she barely knows me, but I don’t feel any spite as that scenario is common in online dating and I’m able to understand it.
I would say it’s not common for me to find someone in compatible with, but her personality and mine matched well so I thought that she could have been compatible. I think the part that made me hurt and confused was that in my own mind I thought the date went really well and she’d like to have a second since we were laughing the whole time and had good conversation. Furthermore she hinted at a second date as she was talking about a sushi place and said that she’d take me one day.
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