Hi. First things first, everyone has Skeletons in their closets, and I mean everyone, yours just so happen to bother you because you know about them. the light is that while you hiding things, others are doing the exact same. The antidote to this situation would be to first share something you wouldn’t usually about your closet activities, you will be surprised the person you decide to confine to may actually have something they would like to release as well. Best practice is to be alone with this person of your choice, in my opinion which counts for little in your life would be to go to your wife first. after revealing the heavies of your heart, with honesty and letting her know how much it hurts, she will have compassion for you. Guess what? this opens the door for you to ask her if there are things that she feels ashamed of an are hiding as well, and the both of you can be there for each other like never before. This then builds Confidence you just face your wife….probably one of the hardest people to do so. Let that confidence go with you to your professional environment, knowing that there are at least two people you don’t have to hide things from…your Wife and of course me since I read this. and with the confidence of transparency set higher benchmarks and goals, and go after what ever it is you want. Laziness comes from guilt and shame, not feeling like you deserve to move forward in life. But today I tell you that it not the case my good sir, you have the power to super cede any and all skeletons in your life, besides they have no muscles…lol. But you do. Go Break some bones.