Dear maritzarivas:

I would like to re-read your post after my morning walk and respond then. It will help my understanding if before I am back you can tell me why he quit his therapy after only 3 sessions? Did he not like the therapist (possibly it was not an empathetic or competent therapist)? Also, did he come up with ideas in conversations with you about how he intends to deal with his demons, as he calls them?

In what ways does he think that his relationship with you is all he needs? is there any work he has been doing in the context of his relationship with you toward his own healing?

anita