Hi tontonyanou,

I know what you mean. I took my family on some of my Bucket List adventures. And I would get totally focused and obsessed. Looking back, I should have done them alone. Maybe it’s the fear of if we don’t do it now it will be taken away? Or that nothing I’ve done “mattered” and this won’t “matter” but I have to do it anyway? I don’t know how we can fix this, but maybe cop the attitude of calm, cool, and collected.

I like the idea of We are Already Perfect, and Everything Else is just Happy Optional Extras.

Best,

Inky