I am glad to hear that you and your husband are both working on moving on from that mistake. We all make mistakes and the best thing we can do to rectify them is to take responsibility, forgive ourselves and move on.

It is a shame that this girl can’t let go of what happened, but that has nothing to do with you or your husband. She is responsible for her own feelings and actions. She has to seek healing for herself, and perhaps she will someday. That is not your concern.

I went through something similarly painful with my ex-husband, though the situation was not the same. Long story short, for years after the divorce I was angry and in pain. I’m still healing and letting go. The journey is difficult, but rewarding.

I hope you and your husband continue to grow together!