Dear andrew luc:

You are dissatisfied with your social life, your connections with friends weakened and the one with the girl is gone: why did these connections get weaker and dissipated

There are different factors to consider: people moving away or changing schools, random guy with a flashy car shows up and girl is mesmerized by car (an example, nothing more), things happening.. but there is always one factor that needs improving and that is Interpersonal Skills, your own. Just as others need to improve theirs, so do you and so do I, need to improve and keep improving these skills. The more skillful you are at interacting with others effectively, the better your social life would be: in school, at the work place, with a romantic partner, with strangers on the road, etc.

How to improve Interpersonal Skills? Through learning, practicing (experience), learning from new experiences and further experience.

You can read about those skills, and if you’d like, you can post about your interactions with any one of the people with whom you wanted to be close and it didn’t work out and as you write specifics I can then reply to the specifics and we can correspond further.

anita