Oh pat02,
You are a victim of Gang Stalking! This girl IS obsessed with you. With her personality, I think she *might* find someone/something else to be obsessed with one day.
I know it’s not fair, but can you go off social media? Block and/or hide her and her friends?
Some other thoughts come to mind. Secretly (the key word here) transferring, moving, changing your numbers. Travelling abroad.
Giving her a restraining order. THAT will give her something REAL to talk about! There is no socially acceptable way to say, “Can you believe so-and-so gave me a restraining order?” without sounding crazy.
Can you be direct with her: “Stop shadowing my life”.
My DH’s ex girlfriend used to do that to HIM: She joined his club, got a job in his office, became friends with his parents. By always being in each of his sub-worlds she would be in his life. When he met me and moved on, she did eventually quit the job and the club, and finally moved after his parents told her he was engaged.
She could be romantically obsessed with you. And acting all angry because she doesn’t like it herself. I know it sounds weird. But the good news is that as more time goes by the more likely it is that she will focus on her next victim.
Good Luck!
Inky
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