Hi anita,

let me share with you with i put in my profile description :

” My name is Chris,23 this year. I am employed, working 60 hours a week.
I believe there is no greater experience then to have someone who cares.
Outside of work, i spend my free time gaming, watching science documentaries and reading, just to name a few.
Currently reading ‘ Thinking , Fast & Slow ‘ by Daniel Kahneman. “

This is after listening to your advice. I probably will make some changes again here and there. As for starting conversations with my to-be matches, i still have no clue as to what i should say.

I responded to that girl, though now i have to practice being patient with not getting instant results, as you said. Sometimes, she reply slow, so i can use that to improve on my patience and cut down on my anxiety.

I also found a book on emotional intelligence ‘ Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ ‘ by Daniel Goleman , as recommended by brievuong to find a book on emotional intelligence , but have not purchased it yet.