Dear Sann:

I think it is okay for you to tell your father and his girlfriend what you want to tell them, truth or not. I suggested the truth thinking you intended to protect him. If your motivation is to protect you, then do what you need to do.

So that I understand, what is your job situation now? And the tent, are you warm there at night? How is it to live there; how long has it been and how long to be?

Take care of yourself during this visit which, not surprisingly to me, is not helping you.

anita