Dear xenopustex:

As to your last question, how to believe a loving relationship with a future mate is possible?

Unfortunately it is similar to a person applying for a job and being told the applicant has to have experience in that type of job so to get this job. The applicant is frustrated: how do I get experience if I don’t get a job?

To believe a loving relationship with a woman is possible for you, that there is a woman out there who you will value and who will love you- you have to have the experience first.

So how the… do you do it? Slowly, one step at a time. You are already go out and interact with people in social situations every day, on purpose. Next: interact with individual women on a casual dating setting, such as having coffee together or lunch.

You have to have the experience so for your core belief or faith to change. There is no other way. Some people try hypnotism, positive affirmations, religion… but I believe that at best there is a short term benefit to these things.

I will write more in a separate post because this one I am typing has a whole lot in it as is.

anita