Hi adrian1,

That is my life! When I was younger I truly thought of myself as a loner who doesn’t like tons of friends. Well, it only took 30 years to realize that if I had scabs of (Real) friends, it’s not like I’d be complaining!!

I have a few close friends, but those have come through, frankly, time. I have surface-y friends, old friends, new friends and a scant few true friends.

I wish I knew what to tell you, but it seems the Real Ones come organically and naturally on their own.

That said, keep up your social life ~ but only if YOU enjoy it!

Best,

Inky