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Being single is not a death sentence. Ask yourself: Am I whole? Am I ready to love another human being? Do I have a lot of unresolved issues within myself that I need to fix, before I can enjoy another person’s company?
A lot of women go into relationships assuming that having a man will fix all their problems internally. Couldn’t be the farthest thing from the truth. If anything, having a man will amplify those problems, if you haven’t fixed them first. If you aren’t whole, you will have a hard time maintaining healthy relationships with anybody in your life.
Remember, to find your other whole- not half. If you need another half, that’s where the problem lies. Then you need to self evaluate yourself. That you only feel successful in life- if you have romance/ sex. etc that’s a wrong way to think or approach love. You will always fail that way. Don’t get me wrong, everyone gets lonely, I get it….. But, take care of you, before you attempt to take care of someone else. Hope this helps.
Stay blessed!! : )