Dear weeping dragon,

The simple fact is people have all kinds of shit going on in their lives, feel alone and hurt at several points. You aren’t the only one. However you whine way too much and are in no mood to take any feedback from the people who have bothered to write to you and tried to understand. I am sorry but if you even don’t like yourself one bit, your negative, self pity vibe will be visible to others and they will like you lesser still. You are under some delusion that love with a woman will fix things – sorry, but your issues are something only you can fix. Others can only help if you let them. But you aren’t ready for that and have a defensive record ready. Even if anyone cared, I doubt you will see it fully. The hard truth is it is your life at the end of the day – your dad is gone, they shut you away at 5 – that is hard but these are things you can’t change now. What you can change is your mindset and approach – this wallowing in self hatred and self pity isn’t going to get you anywhere. Go see a therapist.

• This reply was modified 8 years, 5 months ago by Nina Sakura.