Hey Inky !thank you for the affirmation !!

Hey Anita!I always appreciate your perspective so I’m glad you like reading from me :D.
I do think I feel threatened by guys and I felt safe with him because he had a very quiet, calm presence. I also think I have pattern of making more effort in my friendships than other people do and it was so wonderful to have someone make the same amount of effort.It also contributed to the sense of security right? Like crazy things weren’t expected from me. I also realized today that he sort of held up a mirror and allowed to examine my thoughts, which was a very new experience for me. I feel like I need to really do that right now, and I think that also played a huge part.He was basically acting as a therapist for me.