Lester,
That’s a very nice dream to have certainly. But if you plan on relying on riches, the best looking girl, fame/wealth, etc. to make you happy….well you may want to sit down with your thoughts and dissect your way of thinking. It is not bad to have that “extra stuff” in your life and regarding the girl I mean the relationship not the actual girl as a possession, although in life many people treat each other as an object.
One deep question that I always ask my self is the fact is; “Would I still be happy even if my possessions were taken away, the people I knew left me or broke contact with me, being dethroned or knocked off the top of the mountain”?
As others have pointed out the difference between “wants” and “needs” in life, the fundamentals of life including remembering/mastering the basics. Once that way of thinking takes over, then the rest should follow suit.

Thank you and take care.
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