Hi beautiful! Just know this won’t last forever and is only temporary. You and your hubby and kids desevre joy and happiness! It will be a process to be able to get him to see his kids but with positivity and hard work and having faith and being the best support system for him and smiling and showing joy and unconditional love and support and listening to him. All you can do for him at this moment is always be there for him let him know he isn’t alone and that it can work out. Remain positive and hopeful and rmemeber you all deserve joy <3 try reminding him that if he doesn’t properly take care of himself he will not be able to fully be there for his kids and try to find out why the main reason he cannot see them ask the ex girlfriend and try to work it out so everyone can be happy. Tell her everyone deserves a chance and those kids are a blessing to him, to deny him visits to see them is wrong and needs to work for everyone. Helping each other will get you through this and so will having a common ground and understanding. Her denying him to see the kids will make the kids unhappy too, tell her that she needs to think of their well being too and they to figure out why she won’t let him exactly see them. Things will work out the way they are meant to. You are such a hardworking beautiful person doing her best while her loved one is not okay. You should be proud of yourself hon we certainly are. YOU ARE AMAZING and all your love to your hunny matters and is crucial in his time. He also has much to live for kids who still love him, opportunities, new memories to create and you..just being alive and loved by people and many more reasons why life is so beautiful and not something to give up on<33 bless you and your beautiful family try talking to other people too to get their input. You are NOT ALONE you are loved and your hubbys reason o smile. He will get through this so will you. Stay pisitive show him love kindness smiles remind him of good times do what you can! He will get througg the emotion sometimes we nees to feel other things to grow and learn.nothing you do is useless it will be worth it so proud of you beautiful angel <3