Oh no the website ate my response!!!!

To paraphrase:

1. You were lukewarm in the relationship going in
2. You were Ph.D. students
3. You lived together
4. You’re all still friends with your ex’s

What a difficult combination!!

Then to top it all off you acted totally UNCONSCIOUSLY!

To her and others in the future: “Please”. “Thank you”. “Would you like me to…” “I totally understand that…” goes SUCH a long way!

When she visits pretend she is a deity. Respect. Manners. Smile. Get her something to drink.

Good Luck!

Inky