Dear daeneth,

I understand why you feel this way.
But believe me, his behavior has nothing to do with you and the person you are. He simply has this need and urge to sleep around, as I said because he’s young or because this is his nature. You could be a top model with 3 college degrees and the greatest person on earth, he still will be tempted to sleep with someone else. There is no explanation to give or demand. He got bored not because you are boring, but because he is simply not capable of maintaining a relationship with one person at the moment. It’s true, he didn’t care and you were nothing to him and that feels awful. But that doesn’t mean anything about you and your worth. It only means that you were looking for love where there wasn’t any love to be had.

What is your relationship with your parents like? Are you close? You mentioned your mom wasn’t supportive? I am asking because we sometimes repeat patterns we had with our parents in our relationships and if as a child you felt somehow starved for love, maybe this is something you are repeating now by attaching yourself to someone who doesn’t give you love and attention.