Dear cherryblossom:

I suggested Clarity may be the Miracle you need. I am still in the process of trying to get clarity about what happened and what your situation is. So two questions:

1. You wrote: “Country HR manager is the big boss of everyone, and he declined.”- one HR Manager for the whole country? And he disapproved of your employment- if so, this is a big problem as all potential employers go through the Country HR Manager. Is that correct? And how can you possibly fix this?

2. You wrote about what happened in your last employment: “Basically they wanted someone to raise a complaint against their manager but that someone to not be them. In the end they might have succeeded..” Do you mean by it that you did raise a complaint against the manager? If so, what was the complaint you raised and to whom? (to the Country HR Manager)???

anita