Dear allicia,
It’s hard for me to give you advice on what to do right now – staying or dropping out.
I believe this is not the real issue. The real issue here is you standing up to your dad and starting to lead your own life instead of living a shadow of it.
My personal opinion is that finishing will not help you much in future, as you don’t want to be an Architect. It never helped me in any way to have the actual paper, only some of my experience helped me as I explained. I also don’t believe you could force yourself into it or “learn to like it” when you so clearly struggle and can’t find yourself there. It is hard even for people who love it and are good at it, so it must be so much harder for you.
What is your current situation regarding your status and family? What I mean is, do you live with your parents and depend on them for everything? What do you think will happen if you tell them you have decided to drop out?
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 