He is in jail for fighting another man, he does have a very bad temper, he is in jail in sydney nsw and i live in Melbourne so i travel to sydney every second weekend to go and see him on a sunday we get a all day visit but you are only allowed to hold hands and the occasional kiss, i havent spend a life with him on the outside and he is getting deported back to new Zealand september 2017 where we are both from he always tells me he can’t give me much while he is in there except his heart and when he gets out he promises he will change his life around and to his best for me there is so much i want to do but at the same time i really do love him and i no when someone is genuine or not i dont want to leave and then regret it later he has no one but me and if i leave again this time i no i will have lost him forever he does deserve a chance and all he wants is for someone to help him and to love him but how do i no what to do, do i guve us a chance so i will really no, or do i just leave him behind and carry on with my life but with the risk of regretting not giving him or our love a chance i am 27 years old he is 28 so we arent getting any younger