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    Kathryn
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    I feel so lost and he tells me if i want to go to my sisters wedding or do things that i want to do then im not being a real women and that im being a little girl that wants to go off and do things that single girls do when thats not the case at all, ive been a very good friend/ girlfriend to him but this is destroying me because i cant choose he has a way of making me feel like im a bad person if i want to do even the simplest things he said he trusts me and that he has forgiven me for the past but i dont think that is the case at all i feel lost all of the time,im not allowed friends, i cant even sleep in on a Saturday morning to give him peace of mind so what do i do? Do i tell him im going to.my sisters wedding and he can choose to accept it or not or do i just not go and just do nothing waiting around to live a life with him i no over time if i leave i will heal and eventually get over him but then i no it wont be easy or how long it will take but i also want to see what will become of this as it has been 4 years, i dont no if he is another lesson or another lofty mountain in my way of my dreams and to becomming the person i am destined to be ive been in a relationship before him for 7 years and i left the other guy because he cheated all the time but this guy is loyal ( so he says) do i just leave and if its ment to be he will be mine

    #116228
    Kathryn
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    How do i let go of someone that i care so much for i no he only has me in there and when he rings he fills my head up with so much bulls#$t im a soft person with a big heart and I hate hurting people i feel like it will be bad karma on me for making a life decision that is going to hurt someone else, how do i tell him so he will understand and without him thinking its just over the wedding because its so much more than that

    #116166
    Kathryn
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    I am in a relationship with him because i love him we he went i had no feelings for him but over time our connection grew and over time i fell in love with him i just hooe the man he says he is in there is the person he truly will be on the outside i feel like if i go home and give us a chance and if it doesn’t work out then i will have peace of mind by really knowing for myself but if i leave and i dont i will always regret it and think what if this or what if that im to soft and i care for him so much he means alot to me but im always confused and upset because this all hasnt been easy and he always says i have to prove myself because i cheated when we first meet

    #116165
    Kathryn
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    He is in jail for fighting another man, he does have a very bad temper, he is in jail in sydney nsw and i live in Melbourne so i travel to sydney every second weekend to go and see him on a sunday we get a all day visit but you are only allowed to hold hands and the occasional kiss, i havent spend a life with him on the outside and he is getting deported back to new Zealand september 2017 where we are both from he always tells me he can’t give me much while he is in there except his heart and when he gets out he promises he will change his life around and to his best for me there is so much i want to do but at the same time i really do love him and i no when someone is genuine or not i dont want to leave and then regret it later he has no one but me and if i leave again this time i no i will have lost him forever he does deserve a chance and all he wants is for someone to help him and to love him but how do i no what to do, do i guve us a chance so i will really no, or do i just leave him behind and carry on with my life but with the risk of regretting not giving him or our love a chance i am 27 years old he is 28 so we arent getting any younger

    #116160
    Kathryn
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    I have been with my partner for 4 years now and he has been in jail for all of our realationship i meet him only 2 weeks before he went inside so i didnt really no him at all in the beggining i had cheated on him and later confessed which was 3 years ago but he refuses to let it go we have b broken up many of times as i left because i was always second guessing what it is i really want he is getting deported back to our home country, he doesnt trust me, we are always fighting i have no freedom it is my sisters wedding in bali in October and he says if i go he will leave me and that no women should go off while her man in is jail and now i dont really no what to do i love him so much he is so loyal and i no i will never meet anyone like him but there are also things i want to do in my life im at a major crossroad and if i leave im scared i will regret it but if i stay im scared i will also regret that to! Someone please help me as i dont no what to do

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