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Hi Angel1972,
Congratulations! You felt so incongruent that you thought you must be crazy. But you weren’t! Girl, you couldn’t even talk about a friggin’ art class without feeling the full force of his silent disapproval.
Lesson #134 in Life: Vibrations are Real! Some would say that vibes count more than words. More than 90% of communication is non-verbal, after all!
Of course the narcissist broke up with you! He did it so you wouldn’t break up with him first!
Listen: When my old BF dumped me, all I had left was this stupid art history class, and we were learning how to build a Nabatean Wall. That Nabatean Wall saved my life! You’re guy’s gone? GOOD! Now THROW yourself in totality into your art and yoga class and your friends!!
But beware: He will try to come back, the less attention he gets. They always do.
Inky