Dear Norit:

Yes, it is okay for you to post here- anytime you need to. You are living in a no-win situation. At best you can survive it but you cannot thrive, you cannot move beyond mere survival in such an environment. This environment, these interactions between your mother-you-your father, these are harming you, and there is nothing you can do to fix any of it.

Understandably you are drained. So use any ounce of energy you do have to moving out.

And do post anytime. Wish life will be so much better for you, soon.

anita