Anita: Once again thanks for your honesty. I know you are right, I know I am right, but I am in such denial that he could be doing any of this on purpose, or that I might indeed by going mad. I guess that is a abuse right?

Last night we had a discussion. He kept saying to me ” I know what you are trying to do” but wouldn’t say what. I was telling him that I felt there wasn’t any acknowledgement of the impact of his actions. And his responses made me realise he doesn’t he really doesn’t. He keeps saying “there is more to this than you are telling me” as if he is implying that his actions cannot be the only reason why I am feeling so bad about our relationship.And if he doesn’t accept that I know he won’t change.

I know this, I just need the strength to break this cycle.