Dear Anita,

You gave me some great hints in dealing with my problem; your posts and words were very helpful and I am very thankful to you. Again, you’re a blessed person.

Last thing please, can you tell me your thoughts — from your experiences — about the correlation between “forgiving” and “forgetting”? Do they go side by side? Can “forgiving” be considered unhealthy under some situations? Can a victim of any crime “forget” without “forgive”? As an example outside the context, Can victims of rape crimes ever “forgive” their attacker or simply choose to “forget” without “forgiving”?