Hi Janet,

I am glad my post helped you in some way.

It takes alot of courage to walk away from a 4 years of relationship. So, hats off to you.

To be honest, I never understood the idea of reconciliation but that’s just me. Broken romantic relationship are like broken glass, you only cut yourself if you try to put them together. Again, that’s what my opinion.

When people came out from relationship, there is this fear of never finding someone again, loneliness, poor self worth etc. is so prevalent in mind that they either quickly jump into another wrong relationship or try to reconcile. So, look inside and identify underlying issues. Then, work on yourself. If you do that you will find having another relationship will become less significant. You will still feel content with no one in your life. But in long term, there will be alot of opportunities coming out of no where.

This is called letting it go in action. I am telling you this from my experience.

Brav3