Hi Jay-me,

As a person in a marriage with a vast age difference I can tell you two things:

1. Differences in age only matter when you’re very young or very old.

2. It sounds like this particular guy is too busy or scattered to be in any relationship.

You need to tell him that you are not his safe, default girlfriend. That he needs to step up his game with a text, dam it!

You deserve a phone call. I think that is a meme actually. #youdeserveaphonecall

Best,

Inky