Dear norit:

Your questions are not stupid. I don’t think there is such a thing as a stupid question. I wish you don’t feel shame about posting here.

You are afraid to leave home, and that is okay. You don’t have to leave. One day, maybe. It will be better for you when you do leave, when you are ready, not before.

“Is it possible to start feeling better (away) from home?” Yes. It is possible to feel much better. But it is also scary, to leave what you are familiar with, what you are used to, what feels safe.

Please do post again. I feel sad at the thought that you may not post again. I will be happy if you do. I wish you do post again.

“How can I love myself?” (title of thread): Let me know how you feel about what I write to you- if it scared you that I suggested you moving-out, let me know so that I will not mention it again.

anita