Dear Cyrus,

Long associations form with time. Sometimes they start in adult hood only and within 2-3 years, they become deep provided we spend lot of time with that person.

So perhaps best way for you to get that group of sorts is to build stronger relationships with the friends you already have. Imagine someday you will get married or your kid gets married and they show up. Wouldnt you have a great dwal to remember over the years??

It’s okay to miss some aspects of friendships. Perhaps you have experienced some that many haven’t. Many don’t get to leave the comfort zone of their home towns and experience an international life style. This has both pros and cons as staying in the same place all the time does.

Regards
Nina