Hey Inky, glad to hear you are working on yourself, for this is the hardest job in the world and the only one worth doing.

There are spiritual answers to every problem and in this case it revolves around feeling separated from the family. While you judge you will always fell separate but the lucky thing is that relationships with anyone are never completed while you are still attached emotionally. There is always hope to repair if the parties are willing. Love conquers all… 🙂