Dear Lindsay Harrington:

I read through all your posts on this thread. Up until Feb 16, he maintained that the breakup was all your fault because you looked into his phone. And now he says it was not the reason, correct? “He admitted it had nothing to do with the phone”-

What an extreme departure from a claim he held so strongly, an accusation he insisted upon- and which you took to heart and felt guilty for.

He is not an honest person. He told you what suited it then and he is telling you now what suits him now. He wants you back and he believes telling you it is NOT the phone and that it is his fault, that it will get you to be back with him.

“Blindsided by the breakup” is the title of your thread. Do not be blindsided by his effort to get you back. If you take him back, and marry him (if it comes to that), you will be choosing a life of blindsided-ness.

You have eyes to see. Don’t give up on seeing reality as it is (not as he claims it to be at any time).

anita