Hi Carolin Lim,

I have SO many thoughts that I will list them:

1. His wife knows about his “5 or more GFs”.

2. He is an unemployed loser and compensates by being a wanna-be-Casanova.

3. I bet he was telling you about all those GFs to make him seem like everyone wants him. Half of them are probably exaggerated. i.e., Someone says “Hi” to him and therefore she wants him.

4. When you wouldn’t sleep with him right away he started in on the emotional abuse.

5. YOU are not married to him and he has NO ties to you, so he started in on the control.

6. He has the pretty girl (you) competing with the super model girl and the super model girl competing with you. Insecurity on his behalf all around! The perfect set up!

7. You already enacted the perfect revenge: You unceremoniously dumped him. The ceremony of an official closure is more than he deserves. Leave it alone.

8. If you must tell the wife, wait until a year and a half later when he’s already moved in on his next victim(s). Don’t let on it’s you, but do tell her about the super model girl and that he would brag to you about all these other women.

These men are sad, they have no job, and so fill their spare time in spreading emotional chaos because they’re bored.

And P.S., coincidentally, this is the season of Lent, a great time to repent and give something up!

Blessings,

Inky