Dear Alexandra:

You are welcome. And you can keep posting here while you are in the UK. I will respond.

Example of possible imperfect behaviors on his part (possible, I write, because these are to be determined by you, according to your comfort level, and sometimes following conversation with him): Going for a drink with his friends for an hour in the evening (not driving).

Wrong behavior on his part: going out for drinks with his friends two hours or longer/ whole night.

Example of imperfect behavior on your part: starting arguing with him instead of calmly starting a conversation; then realizing it and correct to a calm conversation.

Wrong behavior on your part: starting an argument, not correcting/ leaving to a supermarket parking lot to stay in your car.

anita