Hi Blue Ocean,

You should leave and not tell him you’re leaving. Take an Uber to a bus station or train station or airport. Call your family to pick you up from a second undisclosed location. Or take advantage of your local women’s shelter which you will use temporarily until you can figure out how to come home. After several years you will have a lot of stuff in your apartment/house. Leave the stuff. Forget the stuff. The stuff isn’t important. Just go home.

Blessings,

Inky