Dear Blue Ocean:

That feeling that you have when he yells at you and tells you what a terrible person you are, that feeling doesn’t go away when he is sweet and playful, does it?

Can you imagine it is possible for a person to be sweet and playful AND never yell at you, never tell you that you are a terrible person? It is possible to have a boyfriend that respects you all of the time.

To have a consistently loving boyfriend, one who makes you feel safe because you can rely on him to never attack you, you do need to leave this one.

anita