Henry Alec McLoud,

Love is many-fold and you are not denying yourself love if you love others.  It’s like saying “I must drink, but I will only drink water!”  You would deny yourself other experiences to become the perfect water drinker?  Love for self  and love for others share only the name “Love”.  The experiences are completely separate and only related as we choose to allow.  Seeing the world so black and white will rob you of all the experiences of the lovely greys in between…

wishing you health and happiness,

Ramone