Hi cleref,

The two solutions are:

1. Hire another man to do it. (They don’t like this and will generally do the task before the guy comes over and then fire them.) Say, “You are so busy, otherwise you would do it so I hired someone.”

2. If it’s something that truly only he can do, let him do it (or not do it) and then watch him fall on their face. I know this is hard.

And in the future don’t go into anything with him that you can’t take charge of yourself. You don’t want to be the nagging wife.

Good Luck!

Inky

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