Dear Newlifestartsnow:

I am not clear: does she want no contact with you at all? I understand the friendship is over, but will she be willing to talk about what happened, just so that you can have the information you need?

As is, my understanding is that you don’t know what of what you said offended her. You wrote that you “tried to apologize”- apologize for what?

If you apologize for… nothing, there is no value to the apology. I wish you could meet for a post-friendship honest communication, for the purpose of learning and understanding what happened. If such communication is impossible, see to it that it happens in your other friendships.

Take good care of yourself.

anita