Dear Jesss:

Welcome back to your own thread. I am quoting parts of your last post and then comment.

You wrote: “I.. reminded him of our songs and asked him that i need to know the reason behind his weird attitude”-

“…Then after a week i send him… just heard a song reminded me how we were ”

“… tonight i send him ‘why u gave up on me sooo easily in this way? Its my right to know the reason…Why cant u  confront me. Are u afraid i will cry and get upset like last time me met?! Dont worry. I am just curious’…’Why u insisting to kill everything like that by your attitude’”

“…i was shocked and surprised from his attitude…So what to do now when he calls me?! What do anyone expect he will say?”

My comments: I believe it is time for you to give up on a relationship with him and move on, best you can. The songs you shared, the emotional and physical closeness, the hopes you had, are all in the past.

He has been consistent in his unwillingness to start again a relationship with you. He has been also consistent with not being assertive with you (confront is the verb you used), but his message- in my understanding- is loud and clear: he is not interested in re-starting a relationship with you.

It is time for you to move away from the past, the memories of words and songs. Time to no longer be shocked by “his attitude”. It is what it is and has been consistent over time.

As to your question: I expect him to say nothing much, just like he hasn’t for a while. It is my understanding that he wants no contact with you and that he has been responding to you because he is afraid of you.

anita