Dear Rogue,

in the last message you said that you text him once a week asking how he is doing. If I understood correctly, there may even be a week without communication, which is a long period of time.

If you like someone a lot or are in love, it is natural to keep connecting often. It sounds that either he is really S L O W or does not have such feelings that you have. Either way you feel frustrated and he feels pressured.

It is your right to have a close relationship that moves forward. It will happen with or without him (meaning someone else).

• If I were you, I would tell him about the frustration. Maybe he could understand your point of view and seriously consider his feelings. Right now it is very casual for him. If he realizes that he has deep feelings towards you and believes in you two, he will be able to “speed” himself a little so that both of you can see the relationship growing and progressing. Or he will set you free so that you are in a position to find love elsewhere.