Dear Jon,

No doubt Anita has shed lights on many people here.

Thank you. I think I know exactly what I want from a relationship, but I still am searching for it. I’m sorry to hear about your childhood experience. And I am sure you would understand my situation too, with that experience before. It feels good to hear that I’m not alone on this (even though it’s not something that I would want others to experience).

Love is a difficult topic and concept. There’s so many types of love and one has to dive in and really pull it apart to understand what it means to an individual, and what boundaries are important for that particular individual. I just hope I get better at this, without hurting too many people on the way.

All the best.