Thanks, Anita.

I will try what you suggest. It doesn’t help that I will have relatives there giving me the puppy dog eyes of pity or the other relatives who think things are great asking me when we will follow suit. I have some very nosy family members. Regarding crying…I’m one of those people who can’t stop crying once they start. Shedding a few tears for “happiness” would likely end up with me bawling the rest of the night and living in the ladies room :/