Hi Lauren,

He doesn’t get to complain about other women to you. Nor does he get to let other people know these women exist while keeping your past relationship with him a secret.

No, really. You are kowtowing to his culture and customs. But what about yours?

What would happen if you said in front of everybody, “Back when Friend and I went out…”?

Tell him you don’t want to hear about his love life and that yours is more an association now, not a friendship.

Word to the Wise: Keep your love life and work life separate from now on!

Best,

Inky