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Eliana
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Hi Rox,

I too, have had the same problems. I overreact, and drive away men. This comes from a very tramautic, turbulent childhood, where I was abandoned over and over and severely neglected and abused by an Alcoholic mother. My father, although he loved me, had to always travel for business.

This has caused me tremendous insecurities in my relationships. All have been chaotic, became quickly intense, became “in love” way too soon. It was all drama on my part, I was bored if there was no fighting or chaos that I was used to in my childhood. I would get bored and fall “out of love” within 3 months and go on to the next man.

I am now working on my mental illness, post traumatic stress disorder, a personality disorder, major depressive disorder, panic disorder and an intense fear of abandonment and rejection.

You said “he gave up too easily” sometimes, I have said this too when men left me when they tired of my intensity. Can you expand on that?