Hi Tgo tiny Buddha,

Well now, if he doesn’t see a future together he isn’t the perfect guy now, is he?

Forget about earning back his respect and your perceived value. You have it backward. HE has to earn YOUR respect and perceived value!

If he calls you to see how you “are” or for a booty call, or whatever, be busy. Be busy until next year. Seriously. He has to literally “run into you” now. Don’t return all his texts or calls. Limit contact, if you contact him back at all.

When/if he finally, literally runs into you on purpose and wants to “talk”, flip the script.

Say “You were getting too close and backed off because you freaked out” in a tone that he was more into you than you were into him. He will deny it. You say, “Right” sarcastically as you brush past him.

And, yes, date other people. I bet that even the common Joe will look better and better in comparison to him as time goes on.

Good Luck,

Inky