Hi Kittycat100,

I’m sorry to hear what you are going through. Did he tell you he was intimate with these women, or was it rumors or gossip? Did he do this before he was seeing you exclusively. I once fell for a man at work..hard. They had a strict “no dating” policy. So, we just met up for drinks outside the office, went to dinner, movies. I was smitten. Then he asked me to a Christmas party. My friend was there. I introduced them and went to the bathroom. When I came out I could not find him. I went out to the balcony where they were drinking eggnog and slowdancing. I never spoke to him or my friend again..even though he said “it was nothing”. I swore I would never date a man I worked with. Too much awkwardness.