Dear Sassypants:

You had a four year relationship that ended because he sent photos and terms of endearment to another woman and started a demanding job that made working on the broken trust difficult or impossible, and because you fell in love at first sight a month ago with a man you met at a bar. You are 35 and you don’t want to waste time. You wonder if the choice to end the four year relationship was the correct choice for you.

Question for you: how did your four year boyfriend react when you discovered the photos and term of endearment to the other woman? What did he say/ how did he explain it?

anita